JK Rowling Reveals Why the Dursleys Hated the Potters
We’ve all known since the first Harry Potter book was published in 1997 that the Dursleys, Harry’s foster family and closest living relatives, hated him, but it wasn’t until this week that we knew why.
To mark what would be the 35th birthday of Dudley Dursley, Harry’s wit-deprived cousin, JK Rowling added a new section to Pottermore which explains how his parents met and why they didn’t get along with the Potters.
When you break it down to the basics, it’s pretty simple: no one likes their in-laws.
Readers who enter The Cupboard Under The Stairs moment in Pottermore and then select the photo on the table outside of the cupboard will be rewarded withof Vernon and Petunia Dursley. The site is very difficult to use, but did get in for long enough that I can tell you that Rowling identified the names Petunia and Vernon as two names she had never liked. Their last name, on the other hand, is drawn from the Gloucestershire town of Dursley (Rowling liked the way it sounded).
There is, of course, more to the story, and I’m going to quote it below. I had a lot of trouble trying to use that site, so much so that I had to go into the source code just so I could read the following text.
I would normally prefer to respect the source by sending you there, but I don’t hate anyone that much. So instead I thought I would do you the favor of saving you the pain and aggravation.
Harry’s aunt and uncle met at work. Petunia Evans, forever embittered by the fact that her parents seemed to value her witch sister more than they valued her, left Cokeworth forever to pursue a typing course in London. This led to an office job, where she met the extremely unmagical, opinionated and materialistic Vernon Dursley. Large and neckless, this junior executive seemed a model of manliness to young Petunia. He not only returned her romantic interest, but was deliciously normal. He had a perfectly correct car, and wanted to do completely ordinary things, and by the time he had taken her on a series of dull dates, during which he talked mainly about himself and his predictable ideas on the world, Petunia was dreaming of the moment when he would place a ring on her finger.
When, in due course, Vernon Dursley proposed marriage, very correctly, on one knee in his mother’s sitting room, Petunia accepted at once. The one fly in her delicious ointment was the fear of what her new fiancé would make of her sister, who was now in her final year at Hogwarts School of Witchcraft and Wizardry. Vernon was apt to despise even people who wore brown shoes with black suits; what he would make of a young woman who spent most of her time wearing long robes and casting spells, Petunia could hardly bear to think.
She confessed the truth during a tear-stained date, in Vernon’s dark car as they sat overlooking the chip shop where Vernon had just bought them a post-cinema snack. Vernon, as Petunia had expected, was deeply shocked; however, he told Petunia solemnly that he would never hold it against her that she had a freak for a sister, and Petunia threw herself upon him in such violent gratitude that he dropped his battered sausage.
The first meeting between Lily, her boyfriend James Potter, and the engaged couple, went badly, and the relationship nose-dived from there. James was amused by Vernon, and made the mistake of showing it. Vernon tried to patronise James, asking what car he drove. James described his racing broom. Vernon supposed out loud that wizards had to live on unemployment benefit. James explained about Gringotts, and the fortune his parents had saved there, in solid gold. Vernon could not tell whether he was being made fun of or not, and grew angry. The evening ended with Vernon and Petunia storming out of the restaurant, while Lily burst into tears and James (a little ashamed of himself) promised to make things up with Vernon at the earliest opportunity.
This never happened. Petunia did not want Lily as a bridesmaid, because she was tired of being overshadowed; Lily was hurt. Vernon refused to speak to James at the reception, but described him, within James' earshot, as 'some kind of amateur magician'. Once married, Petunia grew ever more like Vernon. She loved their neat square house at number four, Privet Drive. She was secure, now, from objects that behaved strangely, from teapots that suddenly piped tunes as she passed, or long conversations about things she did not understand, with names like 'Quidditch' and 'Transfiguration'. She and Vernon chose not to attend Lily and James' wedding. The very last piece of correspondence she received from Lily and James was the announcement of Harry’s birth, and after one contemptuous look, Petunia threw it in the bin.